Creating Meaningful Connections with Families
A Guide to Positive Conferences and Resource Sharing
Building strong connections with families is one of the best ways to support your students’ success. Family conferences provide a great opportunity to celebrate progress, share insights, and work together to help children grow. By approaching these discussions with warmth, empathy, and a strengths-based mindset, you can make families feel like true partners in their child’s learning journey. The Virginia Kindergarten Readiness Program (VKRP) offers wonderful family resources to help make these collaborations even more effective!
Getting Ready for a Successful Family Conference
1) Building a strong connection with families starts with trust and open communication. Remember, families may feel nervous about these meetings, especially if they’ve had challenging experiences in the past. Your warm and welcoming approach reassures them that you’re on the same team, working together to help their child succeed! Here’s a way to make your conferences feel supportive and encouraging:
- Affirm the child’s strengths. Start by sharing something positive about the child’s learning, behavior, or personality—this helps set a warm and constructive tone.
- Ask for the family’s perspective. Show genuine curiosity about their insights and goals for their child. Their input is invaluable!
- Appreciate their experiences, values, and culture. Recognizing the family’s role in their child’s builds trust and a strong partnership.
2) Having a clear and positive approach can make family conferences feel more welcoming and productive. Here’s a framework to help guide your conversation:
- Set the Stage:
- Start by thanking families for their time and involvement.
- Share the purpose of the meeting in a warm, collaborative way: “I’m excited to talk with you today about how we can work together to support your child’s learning and growth!”
- Celebrate Strengths First:
- Let families know what you love about having their child in your classroom.
- Invite them to share what they appreciate most about their child.
- Get to Know the Family and Their Goals:
- Ask about their family values, routines, and any cultural elements that are important to them.
- Encourage them to share any hopes or concerns they have about their child’s social-emotional or academic development.
- Talk About Strategies That Work:
- Let families know what strategies have been successful in the classroom.
- Ask about any techniques they use at home that help their child. Together, find ways to reinforce helpful strategies in both settings.
- Share Resources and Stay Connected:
- Tell families about the VKRP Family Resources, which offer practical ideas for supporting learning at home. Share specific resources that fit their child’s needs.
- Plan ways to keep in touch — through notes, texts, emails, or short check-ins — to celebrate progress and answer any questions.
Empowering Families with Resources
VKRP offers family-friendly resources designed to help families support their child’s learning at home. These easy-to-use resources provide fun and practical ways to build early literacy, numeracy, self-regulation, and social-emotional skills. By sharing these resources, you’re giving families useful tools to reinforce what their child is learning in the classroom, helping them feel confident and engaged in the process!
You can explore these helpful VKRP Family Resources to share with families.
Building strong family partnerships is one of the most rewarding aspects of teaching. By leading family conferences with warmth, collaboration, and useful resources, you create a team approach that benefits children both at home and in the classroom.
More Questions for the VKRP Team? VKRP provides support via the online chat feature when you are in the system, via email at vkrp@virginia.edu, and via toll free at 866-301-8278.
